Everything changes and that is exactly why life is so complex. We’re so used to our lives changing so frequently, we anticipate its arrival. Things out of our control, and within also. The weather changes every few months, so our clothes do too. We switch jobs, just like the policies of the ones we been with so long decided to change as well. Friends come and go, and we start to notice a few grey hairs in the mirror. Some even stress how much their in need of a change. We often say phrases such as, “In with the new and out with the old”. We have become so accustomed to this revolving door, consistency alarms us. In fact, we take things into our own hands sometimes without giving much thought. We sometimes overlook how great things are just how they occur. We get used to our partners flaws, we get to thinking the next person is flawless. So, we leave just to realize we were just fine with the flaws we once dealt with. We are anxious to take on a better paying job, completely blind to the amount of work and stress that job implies for that pay. It’s almost as in a way, we disrupt the universe by doing so. Then we end up regretting those actions, due to being so eager for change. Don’t get me wrong, I am not implying that change is a bad thing, though I used to be so afraid of it. What I’m saying is, change shouldn’t be forced unless necessary, it should come natural. Let me further explain what I mean by necessary. If you believe you can accomplish more than what you are currently settling for, then by all means, take the steps to do so. If you’re truly unhappy in a relationship, make your own happiness your personal goal and get out of there! However, just making changes without any true motive or good intentions is just setting yourself up for failure. To be conscience of the moves you are making is the best way to control a more positive outcome.