As insane as this may sound I have made a vow to no longer express my feelings first. Let me explain. I see an obvious difference between, “I love you” and “I love you too”. “I miss you” and “I miss you too”. It’s almost as “too” is like an automatic response. A reflex in a way. It is as if when someone says one of those phrases to another, people feel obligated to follow up regardless of it being true or not. I have actually found myself being guilty of doing so. I don’t want someone to agree with my feelings because they feel as if it’s the right thing to say! Nor do I want to continuing doing that to someone else. So instead I’d rather wait too see an individual’s true feelings they want to express without any type of pressure. In return if the feeling is mutual I will now follow up without the “too” attached. Seeing that “too” seems to reduce or underestimates the genuine meaning behind our feelings. It’s only fair we fall for an actual human being not someone with robotic responses.

Thanks to Shamar for keeping me on my feet about blogging daily ❣️